Category: Health & Wellness

An open letter to my soul mate, happy heavenly birthday Adam Fabulous…

Trigger warning, suicide mentioned* I met you at 18, you were dating my roommate and I asked you why you were dating a girl?! You responded that you liked her and I laughed and told you I was pretty sure you didn’t like ANY… Continue Reading “An open letter to my soul mate, happy heavenly birthday Adam Fabulous…”

Gaslighting – my best friends Abusive partner uses suicide as a control tactic.

Trigger warning – abuse mentioned* ‘Remember me when I’m gone’ This is the message she got when she went out with her best friend with a photo of him holding a knife to his wrist. Threatening suicide became his favourite control tactic and it… Continue Reading “Gaslighting – my best friends Abusive partner uses suicide as a control tactic.”

Why I didn’t talk about my abuse until now.

Trigger warning – rape mentioned* This is the hardest blog I ever have or will ever need to write but I can no longer remain silent. The first time I was sexually abused was by a family member and someone I loved and admired,… Continue Reading “Why I didn’t talk about my abuse until now.”

Why I’ll never shave my vajayjay again.

I don’t know about you but during winter I like to grow a nice Winter coat, I’m single, I’m not shagging anyone and I feel the cold sleeping alone all by my old lonesome self! Well I actually have a toddler who sleeps with… Continue Reading “Why I’ll never shave my vajayjay again.”

It’s ok not to be ok.

For those of you who don’t know me and my story let me catch you up a little. I’m Christielee, A single mother of 4 girls from 4 – 14 (all born on 4’s eerily enough) and I am not always ok. I am… Continue Reading “It’s ok not to be ok.”