Tag: #abusesurvivor
Gaslighting – my best friends Abusive partner uses suicide as a control tactic.
Posted on December 29, 2018 by Christielee
Trigger warning – abuse mentioned* ‘Remember me when I’m gone’ This is the message she got when she went out with her best friend with a photo of him holding a knife to his wrist. Threatening suicide became his favourite control tactic and it…
Why I didn’t talk about my abuse until now.
Posted on September 27, 2018 by Christielee
Trigger warning – rape mentioned* This is the hardest blog I ever have or will ever need to write but I can no longer remain silent. The first time I was sexually abused was by a family member and someone I loved and admired,…
We are constantly told that our relationship and how it started is ‘odd’ to say the least, some people can’t wrap their heads around the fact that my ex-husbands ex-wife and two of his ex-girlfriends are best of friends.....
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Yep I know that’s hard to get your head around but we all met after my daughters father passed away.
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The beautiful curly haired mumma Mase, Jay’s wife before me has a son Max who is my daughters half-brother so it was only natural that we bonded and made sure our children grew up together although we never met prior to that, besides that she is the most beautiful soul to walk the earth!
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Shazza the beautiful blonde and Ness that tall sexy bitch with perfect eyebrows were both with Jay at seperate times (he loved the ladies!!) and we all had so much love for him, after he passed we all developed a deep love for each other and I know that sounds fucking crazy to many but it seemed like a perfectly natural progression after the unusual sequence of events that occurred.
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These girls have cried uncontrollably with me and we have laughed even harder(especially playing Cards against humanity last night, that game is completely non PC and funny as fuck!)
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We have mourned together and healed one another’s souls and broken heart.
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We have seen the darkest of days together and been each other’s guiding light.
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We may not be able to see each other all the time but we are ALWAYS there for each other no matter what, we can trust each other and know that whatever the circumstance we will be there for each other whether it’s for a huge girls night or to discuss how to hide the body of another duck head one of us has met we got each other’s back!
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I rid my life of all toxic people over the past few years and the friends I keep are in my life because they’re my soul sisters, my tribe.
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These women are a huge part of my tribe, my incredible and extraordinary fucking tribe!
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#mumthatsabadword
#10yearchallenge
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10 years ago I was a mum of 3 but I HATED being a mum, I hated it and constantly reminded myself of everything I had ‘given up’ for these 3 little humans who I CHOSE to bring into the world...
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It’s a hard thing to admit that I found no joy in raising my girls and still lives my life as a childless woman as often as I could.
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I went out most weekends and drank most nights, I still took party drugs often and entered into toxic relationships with ‘friends’ and lovers willingly.
My kids spent more time at nanny’s or with their father at home then they did with me and I hated myself for it but I did NOT want to give up my ‘work hard, party fucking harder’ lifestyle.
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I was a bad mum. -
I gave myself excuses like ‘I’m Doing the best I can with what I have’ but that was a huge pile of bullshit, I was just a lost girl with a huge chip on my shoulder that believed wholeheartedly that the world Owed me something and that my children were an inconvenience.
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Years and years of therapy, conquering addictions, beating eating disorders, taking parenting classes and learning self love have led me to where I am today. -
Where the universe knew I was always meant to be.
I am a woman who has discovered her worth and has learnt to love herself.
I am a woman who owns her shit and lives her own normal.
I am a woman who loves the life she lives even through loss and heartache I love the life I have been gifted.
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10 years later and I am a woman who loves NEARLY every moment I get to be a mum to my girls 💜💜
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#mumthatsabadword -
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#motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #10yrchallenge #flashback #sydneymums #mummyblogger #selflove #overcomingaddiction #overcomingdepression #bipolar #parenting #positiveparenting #growingup #woman #womenempowerment #goodparenting #lovinglife #transformation #theuniverseprovides
The last night of our holiday and our beautiful land Australia did not disappoint 🌅 -
We are finally home after 9 days away and I am so beyond grateful to every one who opened their home to me and my tribe and welcomed us with open arms.
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We had a truly amazing, relaxing and eye opening time I can not wait to be up in Qld again soon but for now I am so happy to be in my own bed, showering in my own shower and pissing in my own toilet, you really do not realise how much you love home until you come back from a holiday and find yourself surrounded by familiarity.
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We are so lucky to live in such a beautiful country 🇦🇺 -
#fuckinstrayamate #mumthatsabadword -
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#aussieaussieaussieoioioi #sunset #qld #nsw #homeatlast #homeiswheretheheartis #familyroadtrip #roadtrip #familyholiday #holiday #mytribe #friends #friendsforlife #family #sisterhood #motherhoodunited #arewethereyet #bluesky #blueskies #sun #landscape #landscapephotography #sunset_pics #mumblog #travel #travelgram
A complete ray of sunshine!!
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I got to catch up with @lozdasilva on the home stretch and couldn’t be happier!
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I am so fucking grateful for this slice of sugar pie she is truly a gift from the universe just radiating purity, love and light!
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She is an absolute goddess!! -
#mytribe #mumthatsabadword -
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#healthymummy #friends #friendship #love #pure #purity #virtuous #singlemums #singlemum #singlemumlife #foreverfriends #tribe #sis #sistersquad #loveandlight #mumblog #findyourtribe #goddess #light #blessed #sisterhood #motherhood
Aggressively asking to see the manager and demanding a refund!
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Ooooob Susan, Susan, Susan. You and chad are a perfect couple of douche canoes!
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Via @hellomolly -
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#mumthatsabadword -
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#parenting #susan #memes #meme #memesdaily #laugh #funnymemes #funny #funnyquotes #laughter #mumslife #mums #blog #mumblog #mummybloggers
#realtalk
Just suck your gut in for the pic...theres fucking negative Nancy again but I quickly booted that twatwaffle out of my head
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Real Women have rolls
Real Women have flat stomachs
Real Women have cellulite
Real Women have smooth skin
Real Women have back fat
Real Women have muscles
Real Women have thighs that touch
Real Women have a thigh gap
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We hear so much about REAL WOMEN and what a REAL WOMAN is expected to look like and how she should act.
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We hear that she should cover up if she is not ‘thin enough’ well FUCK THAT
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That she should eat a cheeseburger if she’s ‘too thin’ well FUCK THAT!
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Or she should stop lifting weights before she gets too ‘manly’ well FUCK THAT! -
I am a REAL WOMAN and I won’t suck my gut In or filter my pics or stand in a more flattering position, this is the age of the #bodypositivemovement and I POSITIVE that I love the body I am in so I won’t change and if anyone wants me to well FUCK THEM! -
Ps my feet are sunburnt so where the fuck was negative Nancy when it came to reminding me to put sunscreen on?!
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#mumthatsabadword -
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#fuckyounancy #bodypositive #loveyourself #lovetheskinyourein #mummyblog #mummyblogger #sunburnt #beachbody #bikinibody #positiveoutlook #singlemum #mumbod #greenbikini #lovethyself #bodylove #onesizedoesntfitall
We are constantly told that our relationship and how it started is ‘odd’ to say the least, some people can’t wrap their heads around the fact that my ex-husbands ex-wife and two of his ex-girlfriends are best of friends.....
-
Yep I know that’s hard to get your head around but we all met after my daughters father passed away.
-
The beautiful curly haired mumma Mase, Jay’s wife before me has a son Max who is my daughters half-brother so it was only natural that we bonded and made sure our children grew up together although we never met prior to that, besides that she is the most beautiful soul to walk the earth!
-
Shazza the beautiful blonde and Ness that tall sexy bitch with perfect eyebrows were both with Jay at seperate times (he loved the ladies!!) and we all had so much love for him, after he passed we all developed a deep love for each other and I know that sounds fucking crazy to many but it seemed like a perfectly natural progression after the unusual sequence of events that occurred.
-
These girls have cried uncontrollably with me and we have laughed even harder(especially playing Cards against humanity last night, that game is completely non PC and funny as fuck!)
-
We have mourned together and healed one another’s souls and broken heart.
-
We have seen the darkest of days together and been each other’s guiding light.
-
We may not be able to see each other all the time but we are ALWAYS there for each other no matter what, we can trust each other and know that whatever the circumstance we will be there for each other whether it’s for a huge girls night or to discuss how to hide the body of another duck head one of us has met we got each other’s back!
-
I rid my life of all toxic people over the past few years and the friends I keep are in my life because they’re my soul sisters, my tribe.
-
These women are a huge part of my tribe, my incredible and extraordinary fucking tribe!
-
#mumthatsabadword
#10yearchallenge
-
10 years ago I was a mum of 3 but I HATED being a mum, I hated it and constantly reminded myself of everything I had ‘given up’ for these 3 little humans who I CHOSE to bring into the world...
-
It’s a hard thing to admit that I found no joy in raising my girls and still lives my life as a childless woman as often as I could.
-
I went out most weekends and drank most nights, I still took party drugs often and entered into toxic relationships with ‘friends’ and lovers willingly.
My kids spent more time at nanny’s or with their father at home then they did with me and I hated myself for it but I did NOT want to give up my ‘work hard, party fucking harder’ lifestyle.
-
I was a bad mum. -
I gave myself excuses like ‘I’m Doing the best I can with what I have’ but that was a huge pile of bullshit, I was just a lost girl with a huge chip on my shoulder that believed wholeheartedly that the world Owed me something and that my children were an inconvenience.
-
Years and years of therapy, conquering addictions, beating eating disorders, taking parenting classes and learning self love have led me to where I am today. -
Where the universe knew I was always meant to be.
I am a woman who has discovered her worth and has learnt to love herself.
I am a woman who owns her shit and lives her own normal.
I am a woman who loves the life she lives even through loss and heartache I love the life I have been gifted.
-
10 years later and I am a woman who loves NEARLY every moment I get to be a mum to my girls 💜💜
-
#mumthatsabadword -
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-
-
-
-
#motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #10yrchallenge #flashback #sydneymums #mummyblogger #selflove #overcomingaddiction #overcomingdepression #bipolar #parenting #positiveparenting #growingup #woman #womenempowerment #goodparenting #lovinglife #transformation #theuniverseprovides
The last night of our holiday and our beautiful land Australia did not disappoint 🌅 -
We are finally home after 9 days away and I am so beyond grateful to every one who opened their home to me and my tribe and welcomed us with open arms.
-
We had a truly amazing, relaxing and eye opening time I can not wait to be up in Qld again soon but for now I am so happy to be in my own bed, showering in my own shower and pissing in my own toilet, you really do not realise how much you love home until you come back from a holiday and find yourself surrounded by familiarity.
-
We are so lucky to live in such a beautiful country 🇦🇺 -
#fuckinstrayamate #mumthatsabadword -
-
-
-
#aussieaussieaussieoioioi #sunset #qld #nsw #homeatlast #homeiswheretheheartis #familyroadtrip #roadtrip #familyholiday #holiday #mytribe #friends #friendsforlife #family #sisterhood #motherhoodunited #arewethereyet #bluesky #blueskies #sun #landscape #landscapephotography #sunset_pics #mumblog #travel #travelgram
A complete ray of sunshine!!
-
I got to catch up with @lozdasilva on the home stretch and couldn’t be happier!
-
I am so fucking grateful for this slice of sugar pie she is truly a gift from the universe just radiating purity, love and light!
-
She is an absolute goddess!! -
#mytribe #mumthatsabadword -
-
-
-
-
-
-
#healthymummy #friends #friendship #love #pure #purity #virtuous #singlemums #singlemum #singlemumlife #foreverfriends #tribe #sis #sistersquad #loveandlight #mumblog #findyourtribe #goddess #light #blessed #sisterhood #motherhood
Aggressively asking to see the manager and demanding a refund!
-
Ooooob Susan, Susan, Susan. You and chad are a perfect couple of douche canoes!
-
Via @hellomolly -
-
#mumthatsabadword -
-
-
-
-
-
-
#parenting #susan #memes #meme #memesdaily #laugh #funnymemes #funny #funnyquotes #laughter #mumslife #mums #blog #mumblog #mummybloggers
#realtalk
Just suck your gut in for the pic...theres fucking negative Nancy again but I quickly booted that twatwaffle out of my head
-
Real Women have rolls
Real Women have flat stomachs
Real Women have cellulite
Real Women have smooth skin
Real Women have back fat
Real Women have muscles
Real Women have thighs that touch
Real Women have a thigh gap
-
We hear so much about REAL WOMEN and what a REAL WOMAN is expected to look like and how she should act.
-
We hear that she should cover up if she is not ‘thin enough’ well FUCK THAT
-
That she should eat a cheeseburger if she’s ‘too thin’ well FUCK THAT!
-
Or she should stop lifting weights before she gets too ‘manly’ well FUCK THAT! -
I am a REAL WOMAN and I won’t suck my gut In or filter my pics or stand in a more flattering position, this is the age of the #bodypositivemovement and I POSITIVE that I love the body I am in so I won’t change and if anyone wants me to well FUCK THEM! -
Ps my feet are sunburnt so where the fuck was negative Nancy when it came to reminding me to put sunscreen on?!
-
-
#mumthatsabadword -
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-
-
#fuckyounancy #bodypositive #loveyourself #lovetheskinyourein #mummyblog #mummyblogger #sunburnt #beachbody #bikinibody #positiveoutlook #singlemum #mumbod #greenbikini #lovethyself #bodylove #onesizedoesntfitall
